Accusation Audits™ and Labels™ (more specifically, Asking Labels™) are two expert concepts that have evolved significantly since Never Split the Difference was published.
Read on to learn how we’re advising our best clients.
Read More >Accusation Audits™ and Labels™ (more specifically, Asking Labels™) are two expert concepts that have evolved significantly since Never Split the Difference was published.
Read on to learn how we’re advising our best clients.
Read More >Does yes really always mean yes?
Absolutely not.
When we say yes, we’re committing to something. And immediately after we’ve committed, we begin worrying about what we’ve just signed up for.
This means, at best, every yes is a conditional yes. And oftentimes, it’s even worse: a counterfeit yes that’s uttered simply to get the other side to shut up.
Would it be ridiculous to find out that getting the other side to say no is actually what you should be gunning for when you sit down at the table?
Read More >As MIT Professor Peter Senge once said, “the only sustainable competitive advantage is an organization’s ability to learn faster than the competition.”
How do you learn faster than the competition? Read.
As a bonus, reading is also enjoyable and fulfilling.
With that in mind, here are 12 books that should be in any expert negotiator's library.
Read More >Is it ridiculous to think you can negotiate without saying a word?
The infamous ratio The Black Swan Method™ teaches is 7:38:55. This means that the meaning of a message is the sum of words (7 percent), tonality (38 percent), and body language (55 percent).
Keep reading to learn how to use nonverbal communication in negotiation.
Read More >Want to become a master negotiator? Do these two things:
Read on to develop your list and see how I dodged a bullet at a TSA screening point.
Read More >In any negotiation, a push equals an assertion.
Assertions work if they are preceded by Tactical Empathy™. Without it, you will blow the deals you should have made.
Here’s how to gauge deals and navigate assertions in real estate.
Read More >At its very best, yes is only an aspiration, a hope. But hope is not a strategy, and aspiration is not agreement. Here’s why.
When Never Split the Difference was first published, The Black Swan Group used to say, “Yes is nothing without how.” Since then, we’ve updated our approach. Now, we teach that yes is nothing, and how is everything.
We also taught that yes is the last thing you want to hear. That was never meant to be interpreted that it was the final utterance that would seal the deal. It was always meant in the context of, “What’s the last thing you want to hear from your teenage daughter?” Probably “I’m pregnant.” Or, “What’s the last thing you want to hear from your accountant?” Probably “You’re bankrupt.”
Does that mean you eventually hope to hear those things?
Read More >The secret to getting the upper hand in a negotiation is giving the other side the illusion of control.
There is great power in deference, especially because bullies (and micromanagers) are fear-driven and afraid of being out of control. Keep reading to learn how to deal with them.
Read More >We’re all drawn to interesting people. Here’s how to improve your communication skills and become the most interesting person in the room.
Start with this three-step opening:
Here’s your fourth follow-on step: Mirror™ and Label™ from this point on, using Dynamic Silence liberally. This is a version of the one-on-ones we use as the foundation for mastery of the Black Swan Method™—also known as the quick 2+1.
Read More >Yes doesn’t always mean yes. This is why shrewd negotiators don’t aim for yes, but instead try to get their counterparts to say no.
In this installment of our negotiation training series, we examine the top four no-oriented questions™ from The Black Swan Group, what they replace, and why you should use them.
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